The Lighter Side of Legacy
Not everything we pass down has to be heavy.
Sure, legacies can include values and vision statements. But sometimes, the most lasting things are the stories we made up, the jokes that became traditions, and the made-up characters who became part of the family.
Because long after the documents are filed away, someone always remembers the owl.
The Owl in the Attic
Every winter, just after the first snow, a little teacup gets placed at the top of the attic stairs. Not for a parent or grandparent. Not for a guest. For Olly the Owl.
Olly isn’t real—except, in this family, he absolutely is.
He’s a wise owl with feathers that smell like cedar and a habit of leaving tiny riddles tucked into slippers. No one’s ever seen him, but everyone agrees: you can feel when Olly’s been around. Maybe it’s the way your socks go missing and come back color-coded. Or how the cookie tin always seems full, even when you’re sure you emptied it.
These are the stories that get told year after year, giggled about by cousins, and passed down without anyone realizing it’s happening.
What Stories Live in Your Family?
Is there a squeaky stair that’s blamed on ghosts?
A mysterious “crumb monster” in the kitchen?
A tree that hums when it’s about to snow?
You don’t need to write a memoir to pass something down. Just tell the story again at dinner. Or start a little notebook and call it The Family Lore Book. Ask each generation to add something.
Legacy Doesn’t Have to Be Formal. It Just Has to Be Yours.
Here are a few questions to spark some laughter—and maybe even a little family lore of your own:
What’s a silly story or running joke in your family that no one else would understand?
Is there something you believed as a kid that turned out to be completely made up—but still feels real?
Who in your family tells the best stories? Have you written any of them down?
If your home had a secret magical creature, where would it live? What would it do?
You might be surprised how much comes up once you ask.
Then take a moment to add it to your FamilyOS in the Legacy Vault at Total Family, where stories can be shared, retold, and laughed over again for generations to come. The best parts of us aren’t always written in ink—but they can be, if we’re paying attention.
